YOUR guided venue search

Find your venue,

calm and confident.

A framework to finding your wedding venue that I guide you through personally — the one I've successfully used with couples I work with directly, in the right order, still with me alongside you on a live Q&A each week.

The 28th September 2026 waitlist is now open

A NOTE FROM LAURA

The question I hear most, just under the surface, is: What am I missing that I don't even know I'm missing? Couples who feel calm and confident about their wedding venue choice aren't further along, or somehow doing less worrying than you are. They've simply done it in the right order, with a framework - and someone to ask.

The Guided Venue Search is everything I've learned - thirty years in weddings and events across the UK and France, fourteen years running French Wedding Company near Bordeaux, over three hundred venues visited- structured into a framework I guide you through personally. You move through it in your own time. I'm with you throughout.

Laura

The framework

The framework I use with my own couples,

opened up and guided through.

Five guides, in the right order. A weekly Q&A with me. A personalised venue comparison and budget calculated live - the same documents I use day to day. You move at a pace that works for you, and I'm there each week to talk it through.

131+

WEDDINGS

PLANNED IN FRANCE

300+

FRENCH VENUES

VISITED & ASSESSED

30+

YEARS IN

WEDDINGS & EVENTS

14+ yrs

RUNNING FRENCH WEDDING COMPANY

2 chateaux

MANAGED & RUN AS WEDDING VENUES

10+ venues

CONSULTED ON FOR OPENING

HOW IT WORKS

In the right order - that's the whole point.

From securing your place to your first weekly Q&A. No checklist of fifty things; four steps that take you to a venue you've chosen with clarity.

Step 01

Secure your place

Get notified the moment doors open on 28th September 2026 — you're in as soon as they do, no cap on numbers.

Step 02

Find your framework

We begin with Guide 1. It sets your vision and your true belief - the questions to answer before another property listing is opened.

Step 03

Move through your search

You work through the guides in your own time. I'm with you throughout - and we meet on the live Q&A each week.

Step 04

Ask me anything

Bring a wedding venue, a contract clause, a half formed worry. The Q&A is where the framework meets your search and work through live examples.

wHO IT'S FOR

Honest about who this is — and isn't — for.

Two short lists. I will be honest with you. Even if it's not what you want to hear - and that begins here. If you sit in the first list and not the second, we're probably a good match.

This is for you if...

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You're planning a wedding in France, and you'd like to choose your own venue - well, and with confidence

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You've started looking and the more you see, the less certain you feel. Overwhelm is the word that keeps coming up.

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You'd rather understand the process than be handed a list of properties.

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You want a clear pathway and a person at the end of it who'll answer your questions honestly.

It's probably not for you if...

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You'd like a planner to take the whole search off your hands.

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You've already signed a contract for your venue and are looking back

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You're planning your wedding outside France - you're welcome to join, the process is much the same, but the detailed specifics on law and contracts may differ where you are looking.

WHAT'S INSIDE

Five guides in the right order, one weekly call with me, planning workbook and tools.

GUIDE 1

Vision & framework

Where most couples start with a search bar, we start with you. Seven things to know before you start, so you have a search brief that holds up under pressure, in the right order.

guide 2

Venue types in France

Chateaux, domaines, hameaux, villas. How French venues actually work, their categories and packages - where each kind suits a different sort of celebration and where to find them.

guide 3

Research, the right way

How to read a property the way I read one. Working with the personalised Venue Comparison and budget tool so a shortlist becomes obvious rather than overwhelming.

guidE 4

Visits & worst case scenarios

How to plan a viewing trip that earns its keep, what to look for and the questions you didn't know to ask.

guide 5

Booking & the contract

French contract law, insurance, deposits, terms and cancellations. How to sign with confidence - and when to seek professional advice.

BONUS guideS

Common mistakes, extra questions, ERP and more

Bonus guides covering extras like common mistakes couples make, what is ERP? and other information that's useful to know or consider before making your final choice.

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your guided venue search also includeS

AI tools to support your search - and live, worked examples.

AI can't read or support your emotions or understand the subtle nuances between venues and your individual requirements - I do that, but what it can do is help make the process quicker and easier. Practical AI tools have been created thoughtfully to work alongside my framework - to draft enquiries, compare listings thoroughly, and pressure test a shortlist.

Single payment · workbook and AI yours to keep.

Laura Southgate Wedding Planning Consultant

YOUR GUIDE

I'm Laura. I've spent thirty years in weddings and events - and I know exactly where the venue search gets hard.

I started in five-star hospitality in London, then moved to France and have been running French Wedding Company near Bordeaux for fourteen years. I also managed two venues and planned my own wedding here - so I've sat on both sides of the table.

In that time I 've visited over three hundred French venues, worked with over 130 couples, and watched the same patterns play out again and again. The couples who find this the hardest aren't the ones who've done the least research. They're often the ones who've done the most - but without a framework to make sense of what they're seeing.

The Guided Venue Search programme is the framework I wish every couple had at the start. I built it so the structure is yours to keep, and I'm on the Q&A each week so I'm still in the room when you need me.

Laura

from couples

What couples say.

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The programme has been great in helping us understand and prepare for our French wedding.

jason humphreys

2025 GUIDED VENUE SEARCH

We were so overwhelmed just starting to look at properties we quickly gave up - we just didn't know where to begin. Speaking with you and having you break down the process for us has been invaluable. We understand our options and feel much more confident starting the search with you.

craig & luke

wedding in september 2025

Your one email to me is the most helpful - and the nicest - I have had since starting the venue search back in December when we got engaged. It can in deed be so daunting, having never done this before and not know what to expect.

MARIA VELLA

VENUE SEARCH SeRVICE INITIAL ENQUIRY

Laura is very nice and helpful and it is genuinely useful for a newly engaged couple to have a clear process for selecting a venue - there are an overwhelming amount of them out there now.

DOLORES O'REILLY

2025 GUIDED VENUE SEARCH

opening 28th september 2026

Get it in the diary.

Sign up to the waitlist now and be notified as soon as the doors open.

programme opens

28th September 2026

Modules 1 unlocks - begin at your own pace. Next modules unlock on a weekly basis.

welcome call

Personal 1:1 with Laura

Tell Laura where you're starting from, what you're hoping for, and get set up for the programme. It usually takes around 15 minutes.

weekly live q&A

Thursdays 8pm CET thereafter

With me - every week through your search.

Signing up

Get on the waitlist now

Get notified as soon as the doors open and sign up.

PROGRAMME ACCESS

Three months

From the day you join.

investment INCLUDES

One price. Everything in.

Access to the full Guided Venue Search, continuous access to me including weekly live Q&A, membership to

a closed group community, and the working documents and AI tools you'll keep using

long after you've signed for your wedding venue.

Guided Venue search

September 2026 Offer

147€

single payment

includes

~ Five guides with multiple sections + bonus guides

~ 1:1 Introductory call with Laura

~ Live weekly group Q&A - with me

~ Closed commuinity group

~ Personalised venue comparison and guest management sheets

~ Detailed two part personalised budget planner - reviewed by me + savings tips

~ AI written specifically to my framework to support but not dehumanise the process

~ Weekly newsletter with tips, observations and stories

~ Three months access to the full programme

Already completed What Your Wedding in France Will Actually Cost? You're ahead - Guide 1
builds directly on that budget work. See your email for a reduced price.

A GENTLE POINT OF ENTRY


Not ready yet? Seven Days of Clarity is free.

One short email a day for seven days. Each takes two minutes to read. Not a checklist, not a sales pitch - seven quiet reframes that tend to make the bigger decisions feel more natural.

You're not too late. You're not missing anything. This is a calm way in.

7

DAYS

OF CLARITY

  • SEVEN EMAILS

  • TWO MINUTES EACH

  • NOTHING MORE

FREQUENTLY ASKED questions

Worth knowing before you join.

If something else is on your mind, write to me directly at [email protected] - I read every message personally.

Do I work through this alone, or are you actually involved?

I am genuinely involved. It's guided - you move through the videos in your own time, and we meet on a live Q&A every week with the rest of the group. I am not available 24/7, but I am present, responding to questions via the community page and at the Q&A. It is not a chatbot, a forum or something you download and figure out for alone. I use real examples to make the points where necessary.

How long does it take?

The Guided Venue Search is divided into five guides. A new guide opens each week. Once you have all the guides they are available for you to continue to access for another 2 months. You work through at your own pace. There's no rush. Most couples work through in four to six weeks but some take longer and keep coming to the Q&A and community page to ask questions whilst they are searching or visiting.

Do you find the venue for me?

No, and that's the point. The Guided Venue Search is for couples who'd like to choose their own venue with a clear framework without feeling confused or overwhelmed.

Are places limited?

No — the Guided Venue Search is open, rolling enrolment. Join whenever you're ready; there's no cap on numbers and no closing date giving a continuous and bigger community to share with and learn from.

What tools will I be using?

The Guided Venue Search is delivered by short videos by me with an accompanying digital workbook for you to keep long beyond you have found your venue. The workbook is the foundation of your wedding planning. It includes real figures specifically for your wedding personalised venue comparison and guest management sheets - the same documents I use day to day when searching for venues and planning a wedding. They are yours to keep and adapt. I have also developed AI tools specific to my framework to make the process easier for you without losing the human element or personalisation.

What happens after I secure my place?

You will be sent a confirmation and welcome email with information on how to get set up and organise your 1:1 call with me. Access is immediate and a short welcome will be waiting. The first guide drops at the same time. Next guides unlock on a weekly basis.

What is the closed community?

This is our private community page, solely for members. This is a safe space where couples can chat, share experiences and ideas with each other. It is here that they can ask me questions and it is where the weekly Q&A session will be held live. I will also post regular thoughts, feedback and useful tips and links to help you through the process.

What format is the Guided Venue Search delivered in?

Each guide is made up of short video presentations by me. Each is a few minutes long and you have access 24/7. All tools are also available on the platform to download and keep. The guides can be replayed as often as you need. There is a progress bar so you can keep track of what you have watched. The weekly Q&A is delivered live online. There may be further Q&A sessions added on specific topics if the need arises, using case studies from the group.

Why do the guides drop weekly instead of all at once?

Because a venue search needs time and reflection, not just information. Doing it all at once is where people tend to jump ahead too fast and end up overwhelmed. Last year's couples told me the weekly drop was genuinely one of the most useful parts — it gave them time to work through each guide, reflect on it and act on it before the next one landed, rather than rushing through. It's there to help you search thoroughly, not just quickly.

I've already started my venue search — will this still help me?

Yes. Even couples who'd already been looking for a while found real value in it — they told me there were things they simply hadn't considered until they went through the framework properly. It's not just for people starting completely from scratch; it also helps you spot the gaps in searching you've already done and cut down any overwhelm.

I don't have time to do this myself — can you just find the venue for me?

Yes — for couples who'd rather hand the whole search over, I offer a separate, fully done-for-you 1:1 Venue Search Service. Email me directly and I'll tell you more..

What happens if I miss the live Q&A?

The live Q&A will be at 8pm CET on Thursdays. If you can make it live it is always best as you can submit your questions and share your experiences with others. I understand however that things come up so the Q&A will be recorded and shared in the community page.

Is there a trial period? Can I get a refund if I don't complete the programme?

There is no trial period, and I don't offer refunds. The access to the platform, guides, workbook and community is registered to you when you buy — whether you work through them is up to you. If you'd like to ask anything before you decide, please do email me first. Or for a taster try our What your wedding in France will actually cost.

I have a question before I buy. Can I contact you?

Of course. Email [email protected] — I read every message.

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